To be a man in my reality is to live as peaceful as I can with everyone. Easier said than done. To be a man today, is to help others win and wherever I can. To be a man today, is to cry when it hurts, to scream when it hurts, and to quietly close the door and know that that is perfectly okay.
To be a man today is not to be that childhood people pleaser, who had to put everybody in a category so that he would know how to deal with each and every person. To be a man today is to tell myself to shut the hell up sometimes. To be a man today is to be totally at peace in the quiet. The quietness does not kill me today.
What does it mean to you to be a man? Or to be a woman? I suppose your answer is, it all depends ……